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<LI><em>From</em>: Marian Griffith &lt;<A HREF="mailto:gryphon#iaehv,nl">gryphon#iaehv,nl</A>&gt;</LI>
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On Mon 02 Jun, Caliban Tiresias Darklock wrote:
&gt; On Mon, 2 Jun 1997 21:03:04 PST8PDT, Marian Griffith &lt;gryphon#iaehv,nl&gt;
&gt; wrote:
&gt; &gt;This was, in its own way, equally unjustified as this player's original
&gt; &gt;act was.  While it may have put his perception of what he'd done to the
&gt; &gt;other player into better perspective,  it still comes down to doing the
&gt; &gt;same to him what you blamed him for doing in the first place.

&gt; He was already a wanted man, and would have been removed from the game
&gt; if we had just turned him in to the police.
&gt; The death of the child could not be undone, and neither could his. We
&gt; merely robbed him of the enjoyment he might have taken in that
&gt; character's demise. Our justification was his actions, not his
&gt; existence. 

I'm not going to argue about this. I've done some very serious thinking
when I was a victim and came to a different conclusion than you have. I
don't belief either position is the only right one  so I'll try to life
(ICly) by what I feel is right  and agree when others want to deal with
this type of situation differently.

&gt; &gt;I've been thinking hard about this topic  and have come to the con-
&gt; &gt;clusion that  I don't belief this justice should be drawn out. If a
&gt; &gt;player does something grossly unacceptable  then his character must
&gt; &gt;be deleted. I know from personal experience that watching your tor-
&gt; &gt;mentor suffer is satisfying but it left a bad taste all the same.

&gt; Deleting the character would have been unconscionable. in-game actions,
&gt; in-game consequences -- if he had deliberately harassed the child's
&gt; player through non-game methods like channels and tells, it would have
&gt; been a different story;

harassment is harassment whether pursued IC or OOC. It is questionable if
this situation should be considered harassment though. His RP was defini-
tely not justified, even if it was consistent with his character. In that
much the staff that backed him was in the wrong.
I guess this discussion really belongs on rec.games.mud.admin though.

Marian
-- 
Yes - at last - You. I Choose you. Out of all the world,
out of all the seeking, I have found you, young sister of
my heart! You are mine and I am yours - and never again
will there be loneliness ...

Rolan Choosing Talia,
Arrows of the Queen, by Mercedes Lackey


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<LI><strong><A NAME="01132" HREF="msg01132.html">[MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Jamie Norrish <a href="mailto:jamie#sans,vuw.ac.nz">jamie#sans,vuw.ac.nz</a>, Wed 04 Jun 1997, 11:07 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01066" HREF="msg01066.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Marian Griffith <a href="mailto:gryphon#iaehv,nl">gryphon#iaehv,nl</a>, Tue 03 Jun 1997, 03:53 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01080" HREF="msg01080.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Caliban Tiresias Darklock <a href="mailto:caliban#darklock,com">caliban#darklock,com</a>, Tue 03 Jun 1997, 12:33 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01088" HREF="msg01088.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Adam Wiggins <a href="mailto:nightfall#user1,inficad.com">nightfall#user1,inficad.com</a>, Tue 03 Jun 1997, 17:35 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01108" HREF="msg01108.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Marian Griffith <a href="mailto:gryphon#iaehv,nl">gryphon#iaehv,nl</a>, Wed 04 Jun 1997, 01:45 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01104" HREF="msg01104.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
clawrenc <a href="mailto:clawrenc#cup,hp.com">clawrenc#cup,hp.com</a>, Wed 04 Jun 1997, 01:23 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01162" HREF="msg01162.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Caliban Tiresias Darklock <a href="mailto:caliban#darklock,com">caliban#darklock,com</a>, Thu 05 Jun 1997, 07:04 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="00987" HREF="msg00987.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
Jeff Kesselman <a href="mailto:jeffk#tenetwork,com">jeffk#tenetwork,com</a>, Sat 31 May 1997, 13:11 GMT
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<LI><strong><A NAME="01078" HREF="msg01078.html">Re: [MUD-Dev] Life</A></strong>, 
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